I was about to throw in the towel…

…but then a parent and another treatment provider (social worker #2) with a fresh pair of eyes stepped up. Before my client was due for an appointment with his therapist, I was feeling hopeless. He was engaged in some risky behaviors in the community and school. He largely refuses to talk to anyone and his family was not being consistent with bring him to treatment. He required a specialized evaluation for some risky behaviors in the community and this case was about to be closed due to the parent not bringing him. Myself and “social worker #2” from this program put our heads together to do some different things.

Let’s focus on engaging with the parent to find out what the barriers to treatment consistency were. The parent felt like things were hopeless as well and was developing her own physical symptoms of stress. “Social worker #2” did a great job listening and engaging with this parent.  She talked with the parent about the need for consistency for him to heal (PTSD diagnosis). Although a controversial topic, she educated the parent about him sometimes being in a dissociative state. In terms of some of his symptoms, this really made sense to the parent.  I also gave some educational material about PTSD in Spanish, as she speaks good but often broken English.  The client made it to his therapy appointment today and I met with his mom to coordinate school, legal, and community issues.  The parent reported that she felt more relaxed and hopeful. He still has a long road but this was a good start. Never underestimate the power of reframing, trying something different, and a new pair of eyes to look at a case. Stay hopeful and never throw in the towel. 🙂

Restorativejustice.org

 

Tools for Practice Tuesday- Restorative Justice 

This was a theory and resource I stumbled upon as a social worker in an adolescent day treatment program.  We created a “community” in the treatment milieu. In looking at resources for increasing the sense of community and I found restorativejustice.org.  It’s mission statement.. “Restorative justice emphasizes repairing the harm caused by crime. When victims, offenders and community members meet to decide how to do that, the results can be transformational“.

We often talk about incarceration versus rehabilitation with prisoners. This is typically is referring to making sure they are “productive members of society” or they have a job.  Restorative Justice adds a therapeutic layer to this debate. I would encourage you look at their website. I think these principles can be applied to a lot of settings beyond prisons. I would argue that this theory can be applied to any “community” you work in.